my vision

The birds in the air, the fish in the sea and the wild animals on the land, all know who they are…life is simple. Human beings are more complicated and are born with natural talents and the power of choice…

​"My job as a Mental Skills Coach is to help people find their RSI, then step back and watch the magic unfold"

The problem is very few of us find our calling or passion. Even if we do, it is so easy to be sidetracked into being ordinary rather than extraordinary. Our experiences i.e. our parents, peers, school and environment shape our Self-Image…our inner perception of ourselves that is stored in the sub-conscious mind that powerfully determines our lives. In all of us are these 2 people, the Real Self-Image(RSI) and the  Fake Self-Image(FSI) and depending who is in charge, the direction of our lives is guided...

The RSI is our most powerful self, who naturally operates from a place of joy & passion expressing their natural gifts…this does not mean they are perfect or never make mistakes!

Examples are Lionel Messi, Luciano Pavarotti,  Winston Churchill, Richard Branson, Brian Blessed, Gerald Durrell…etc

The FSI is the person inside us that has been scarred by negative experiences…a difficult childhood, bullying, repeated failure. The FSI can also protect us from taking up challenges before we are ready.

If the FSI gains control of our minds, it does not want to give it up to the RSI, so it sabotages us in a variety of ingenious ways…fear, worry, listening to the wrong people etc